PediatRX is a series on the blog dedicated to providing tricks, tips and my very own “prescription guidelines” for parents on how to survive and thrive while raising kids in a post-pandemic world.
Reserve or React. The choice is yours.
Re-serve.
Re-act.
Two choices. Your call.
Raising two kids under the age of 3 in modern times presents unique challenges. As your youngest develops, you expect to rely on the playbook from your first. However, what may have worked on the first lap, doesn’t always yield the same results on the second go-around. Frustration. Confusion. Setbacks. Befriend them.
In my own peculiar moments when failure seems to be the only skill I’m developing, I see two potential options on how to respond.
Reserve or React.
To reserve means to retreat. It gives us the freedom to replenish our energy. An opportunity to embrace stillness and silence. Every parent knows the situation, their baby is already giving them the bad news.
Sometimes it’s good to let them rant, give them a chance to voice their opinion.
Sometimes, the best offence is a strong defence.
Reserve. Rebuild. Resolve to keep moving forward with patience, compassion and steadfastness.
To react means to strike. It gives us the option of fixing the crisis at hand. At times, we may miscalculate and act out of character. We sometimes use force, in an attempt to insert power and control the situation.
Sometimes, we learn the hard way that things are out of our control.
Sometimes, the best defence is a strong offence.
Always read, then react. Act accordingly. Make your move swift and under control.
A true practitioner in this game learns how to assess the situation. They understand the value of patience. They master the art of reserving and reacting. Acting in the best interest of their family and children. Serving them to the best of their ability. Do both to the best of your ability and you will succeed.
